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3 Keys to Meeting Women
Forget the magic words and clever lines
By David Wygant
Special to Yahoo! Personals
Updated: Jan 10, 2008
Most men think there's a magic
word they can say to get a woman to talk to them. While there is no
such "magic word," there are three keys to communicating with a woman
that work every single time. This is
not earth-shattering stuff. What I'm about to suggest to you is a
simple approach that has worked every single time I or one of my
students have used it. Here are the three simple steps to communicating with a woman: Step 1: Observe What She Is Doing.
Take the example of a woman standing behind you in line at the
supermarket unloading her groceries. What is she putting on the
conveyor belt? If she's behind you in line at Starbucks, what is she
ordering? What is she eating? Notice everything she's doing. Let the environment give you something to say.
 Most guys think of something to say that's so random it makes absolutely no sense in a woman's mind. 
Most guys think of something to say that's so random it makes
absolutely no sense in a woman's mind. Women actually make fun of these
guys and say, "You won't believe what he actually came over and said to
me." Step 2: Act on the Observation.
In order to properly act upon the observation, you need to open her up
and evoke a feeling. For instance, if a woman is ordering a double
espresso, the thing to talk about is usually the first thing that comes
to your mind. A typical guy might
say, "Do you like coffee?" which leads to a yes or no answer. A man who
is 100 percent present will look at her and say, "Rough night last
night?" or "Busy day ahead?" What you're trying to do is stay inside
her head and remain in her current thought process. It's
much easier to have a conversation based upon things she's already
experiencing. A woman will share something that's already going on in
her head. Another example: you're
standing at a bar and see a woman ferociously texting someone while
standing there by herself. You can walk over and make an assumption
like "Is your friend late?" This will in turn open up a conversation
based upon feelings and emotions.
Women are emotional creatures. They want to bond with you emotionally.
Women are emotional creatures. They want to bond with you
emotionally. They don't want to bond with you randomly. This leads us
to Step 3. Step 3: Listen to What She Has to Say.
In order to have good conversation and bond with a woman, you need to
listen to what she says. If you listen to her, you will know what to
say next. It's called a conversation for a reason. A
lot of men always think about what to say next, or they have a script
in their head about what to say next. That's not a conversation --
that's a bad screenplay. For example,
I was standing with a couple of clients on a corner in Williamsburg,
Brooklyn. There was a woman standing there by herself with a suitcase,
obviously waiting for someone to pick her up for a weekend getaway. So
what did these two guys do? They observed and they asked her: Guys: "So where are you going?"Girl: "New Jersey."Immediately one of them says, "New Jersey? I'm from Tampa."
That's
not a conversation. That is a guy changing the subject to talk about
himself. He doesn't care about her right off the bat.
That's not a conversation. That is a guy changing the subject to
talk about himself. He doesn't care about her right off the bat. The
correct thing to say in this situation is this: Now, in turn, the two guys can keep her present in her head about the weekend and ask her about her trip. Guys: "Which beach?" or "Wow, how long are you staying there?"If
they listen and stop thinking about how to amuse her by telling her
they're from Tampa, they'll actually connect with her and have a
conversation about the shore, vacations -- and who knows where the
conversation might go. Men complicate
things for no reason. There are no magic lines that you can say, but in
reality if men just talked to women like they talk to their closest
friends, they would have amazing conversations. Men just need to relax
and listen to what women are saying. Do this and you're going to have great conversations. It's that simple! Get out of the house, observe, react and listen! | 
